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Fajar Ansori

Hi, I'm new here. introduce my name is Fajar and I am 21. Your story really inspired me about how our lack of communication impacts with others, and about the depression you've been through and trying to get through.

I also experienced depression, after graduating high school .. and it made the dream that I dreamed of becoming a web developer delayed. so I worked in a field that was not in my experience studying in school.

I'm happy to be in this forum, make me open with my way of thinking so far. I never write anything in forums and only listen to what people discuss on the forums. from now on I want to do the best in my life and the dreams I've dreamed of so far.

For now, I'm learning about the basics of a web developer like HTML, CSS, JAVASCRIPT, PHP and MySQL.

maybe that's all I want to say, I'm very proud of myself by replying to this post. this will be a bright spot for me in the future.

Terima kasih

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Vesa Piittinen Author

Great if this helped to begin on opening up, it is always a challenge if one has had a hardship in their life! For the moment I don't consider myself depressed, but the effects play a part the rest of one's life, and I can only keep on working on things to change in the ways I think or behave. But that is personal growth you can keep on doing the entirety of your life. Everybody has something to improve on, always.

One tip I wish to say is that people who have never been depressed are blind to the issues and might cause trouble to you and not notice it at all. The only way around is to speak about them. It is hard and I've certainly failed it many times. And it can be challenging to find the right person to speak to in a company.

Have fun time learning all that there is to learn!

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Fajar Ansori

Thank you for your advice! being open to every problem is a good way to try.
Thanks for replying!