There's a lot to this question. It's hard to say it won't present some obstacles, but some thoughts:
If you find local connections, perhaps at meetups if there are any near you, they will be able to help answer your questions and make progress.
I hope my thoughts were helpful at all, but I'm sure some others have better perspective than me because I have never faced this issue myself.
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