I think the situations you described were in no way bad choices, but the only problem is observers having different opinions or less information than the actor. I don't think it is possible to intentionally make wrong choices by definition, because at the point in time where you decide you always try to do the best (but sometimes you may regret it in hindsight).
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I think the situations you described were in no way bad choices, but the only problem is observers having different opinions or less information than the actor. I don't think it is possible to intentionally make wrong choices by definition, because at the point in time where you decide you always try to do the best (but sometimes you may regret it in hindsight).