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Discussion on: How would you handle a conversation with someone who thinks "respecting an opinion" means "agreeing with it"?

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leob • Edited

I think you and the other devs (the senior and "the other dev") handled this well by concluding "Let's agree to disagree" and then moving on. The intervention by the manager was totally unnecessary. A manager's job is to facilitate and enable, not to police or to micro-manage, or to belittle juniors vis-a-vis seniors.

And yes, saying (being forced to say) "yes I agree" when in fact you don't is totally wrong, that's what they do in a dictatorship with yes-men and servants, it just ain't right.

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Monica Macomber

See, I thought the devs' discussion went well too. I'm surprised at all the comments critiquing it 🤷‍♀️

I suppose it could have been more tactful, but tact can get in the way of clarity and clarity's important in a discussion about coding practices.