I started writing software in 1984. Over the years I worked with many languages, technologies, and tools. I have been in leadership positions since the early 2000s, and in executive roles since 2014.
Hey Jess,
It is so dependent on the person that a single framework doesn't do in my experience. Some people need feedback in one way, while others need it in another way. For example, the feedback sandwich idea is good in most cases when the feedback has some mildly negative connotations and the person I am talking to is sensitive and receptive. In case of someone who tends to not hear the negative, it is too subtle and needs to end on a stronger note.
I've found that some people and devs need more squishy feedback... and some less so. I'm the type that needs "squishy" feedback. This could be just me though and it sounds similar to what you've said here?
Other techs/devs/people would want the how to fix without the cushion as much.
I usually go for a little bit of squishy if I don't know the person. I try to go for respect mostly and try to notice or feel vibes (if that makes sense).
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Do you have a framework you abide by when providing feedback? i.e. SBI feedback, feedback sandwiches, etc.
Hey Jess,
It is so dependent on the person that a single framework doesn't do in my experience. Some people need feedback in one way, while others need it in another way. For example, the feedback sandwich idea is good in most cases when the feedback has some mildly negative connotations and the person I am talking to is sensitive and receptive. In case of someone who tends to not hear the negative, it is too subtle and needs to end on a stronger note.
Hey Lorenzo,
I've found that some people and devs need more squishy feedback... and some less so. I'm the type that needs "squishy" feedback. This could be just me though and it sounds similar to what you've said here?
Other techs/devs/people would want the how to fix without the cushion as much.
I usually go for a little bit of squishy if I don't know the person. I try to go for respect mostly and try to notice or feel vibes (if that makes sense).