I've written and deleted my answer like 4 times now ... because I'm trying to answer you without writing a dissertation 😄
Let me say this: As a mom of 2, I would never EVER give back the fact that I am a mother. It's the singular most incredible achievement and calling of my life. Having said that, I completely understand and applaud anyone who says they do not want to have kids. I consider it a blessing that such people KNOW that about themselves, why? Because parenthood is as selfless a calling as they come.
I wish you deep wisdom as you make your decision. Good luck either way ❤️ 🤗 I blog a lot about the intersection between motherhood and my transition into tech arit.dev
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