Jokes aside, besides all that personal emotional stuff, there are metrics existing. Even for the language design. The easiest one is sorta pair division: when two of us are arguing about different languages, they should stop arguing and play a game: you invent a problem, I solve it in the language of my choice, and vice versa. Then we compare results.
That simple, but it works.
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