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That's a tough one, I definitely get what you are going for.
I think there are generally ways to make the call to action more noticeable without reducing contrast such as: Making the main CTA background the primary color with light text and the secondary action a light/white background with a "lighter" text that still passes the standard. That'd make the main action pop out as the thing to do.
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That's a tough one, I definitely get what you are going for.
I think there are generally ways to make the call to action more noticeable without reducing contrast such as: Making the main CTA background the primary color with light text and the secondary action a light/white background with a "lighter" text that still passes the standard. That'd make the main action pop out as the thing to do.