Discussion on: The Language We Use Matters

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Because they is a plural word and it seems awkward to use it to refer to a single person

'They' is also singular (at least in English) - has been since the 14th century - en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Singular_they

Okay, but I'm not doing it a dozen times in a row, I'm usually doing it once ... I think I'll stick to "he or she" whenever the need arises.

Ty for the info John!

After cross reading the wikipedia entey, I'm still on the side of considering the "singular they" an error 😂

There are many situations I can think of it being prone to confusion:

Let's do a BBQ with they, would you mind picking the burgers? -> you need to ask explicitly how many people.
Would you mind onboarding they to the project? -> How many people? Which is their background?