I got laid off from my first job, which happened to be just about as close to my dream job as could be. My company was bought by a larger company that didn't like remote workers and it wasn't an option for me to move to an office.
Same situation as you, I left on great terms with everyone at the company, but I was definitely in a dark place mentally afterward. I had a weird skillset coming out of that job. Front-end developer, but mostly accessibility and UX expert. Seems like a good combo of skills to have, but after working for only two years, most companies didn't feel I had the experience to back it up.
The first job I found after was absolutely miserable, but I think I took it because I was desperate (read: know your worth!). I stayed there for 5 months before I just couldn't take it anymore. The next job I found is the one I'm currently at. I miss that first job, but I'm making the best of my situation by trying to incorporate aspects I enjoyed from that job into this one.
I'm 2 years away from that experience now and it still makes me sad, looking back. I would absolutely recommend counseling if it is an option for you. I wish I had started when this happened to me.
Best of luck in your job search! Just know that being laid off doesn't have anything to do with your skills or abilities. Find ways to boost your confidence while you're unemployed. And always remember that you're not alone!
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I got laid off from my first job, which happened to be just about as close to my dream job as could be. My company was bought by a larger company that didn't like remote workers and it wasn't an option for me to move to an office.
Same situation as you, I left on great terms with everyone at the company, but I was definitely in a dark place mentally afterward. I had a weird skillset coming out of that job. Front-end developer, but mostly accessibility and UX expert. Seems like a good combo of skills to have, but after working for only two years, most companies didn't feel I had the experience to back it up.
The first job I found after was absolutely miserable, but I think I took it because I was desperate (read: know your worth!). I stayed there for 5 months before I just couldn't take it anymore. The next job I found is the one I'm currently at. I miss that first job, but I'm making the best of my situation by trying to incorporate aspects I enjoyed from that job into this one.
I'm 2 years away from that experience now and it still makes me sad, looking back. I would absolutely recommend counseling if it is an option for you. I wish I had started when this happened to me.
Best of luck in your job search! Just know that being laid off doesn't have anything to do with your skills or abilities. Find ways to boost your confidence while you're unemployed. And always remember that you're not alone!