I'm not familiar with anything as foundational as Mythical Man-Month, but if you want something that talks about issues in engineering infrastructure at a comparable (though fictionalized) scale, check out The Phoenix Project
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I'm not familiar with anything as foundational as Mythical Man-Month, but if you want something that talks about issues in engineering infrastructure at a comparable (though fictionalized) scale, check out The Phoenix Project