The post to which you are replying literally points out that intent isn’t important. Please read up on intent vs impact.
You're not the authority on what something "comes across" as.
I’ve known Vaidehi for 5 years. In that time, she and I have personally discussed these sorts of things from reply guys quite a few times. I have more than enough insight to have responded the way I did.
Jamie, please don't assume malice where there is none. You're not the authority on what something "comes across" as.
The post to which you are replying literally points out that intent isn’t important. Please read up on intent vs impact.
I’ve known Vaidehi for 5 years. In that time, she and I have personally discussed these sorts of things from reply guys quite a few times. I have more than enough insight to have responded the way I did.
I already said sorry Jamie, can you please stop.
That was a deflection, not an apology. Regardless, I wasn't addressing you.
Please stop, thank you.