Looks like your beef is with the guy's tone not with the term "coder" per se.
In Addition, titles are mostly controlled by HR so you have little control over what you "should" be called (most times), so I wouldn't worry about it.
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Looks like your beef is with the guy's tone not with the term "coder" per se.
In Addition, titles are mostly controlled by HR so you have little control over what you "should" be called (most times), so I wouldn't worry about it.