Again, I'm not sure I fully understand your concern, but if I go with what I do understand -
Installing packages is one step and publishing package is another, they do not happen in parallel. There are faster package managers than others but I think that reaching the place where this is actually painful... it's quite a project then ;)
If I'm not mistaken you can configure Lerna (and I guess other solutions as well) to work with a certain package manager for publication...
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Again, I'm not sure I fully understand your concern, but if I go with what I do understand -
Installing packages is one step and publishing package is another, they do not happen in parallel. There are faster package managers than others but I think that reaching the place where this is actually painful... it's quite a project then ;)
If I'm not mistaken you can configure Lerna (and I guess other solutions as well) to work with a certain package manager for publication...