Reading your reply, Ben! My conclusion: Software Development is like gardening, so many similarities there, I'll spread the word around. Hope you won't mind me quoting you when the opportunity comes.
Regarding your cactus: it takes a great deal of courage to admit you managed to let it die. Indeed, this is seen as something almost impossible! :)
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