I really want an excuse to use Elm in a real-world context. Still haven't needed it, but still excited about the language.
It's good for applications, maybe less so for content-based websites. (Based on your preact post and concern with deployed size.) Give it a try for some internal tools and see what you think.
I've found that where the difficulty lies in Elm is backwards from most UI frameworks. Most of them are easy/moderate to get going, but become increasingly hard to maintain over time. Elm requires a little bit more effort to get started up front (adjusting to FP mainly), but maintenance difficulty doesn't increase much over time. Maintenance is still work, but not particularly risky work.
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