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Noah Gibbs: Mentor, Friend, Ally

Content Warning: Death of a Ruby community member

I woke up this morning to receive the news, among others, that Noah Gibbs had passed away. It was a sudden and unexpected loss, and one that I feel deeply. Let me tell you about the man who was Noah Gibbs, and what he meant not only to me, but to an entire generation of Ruby developers.

You Are Welcome Here

I grew up in a world where I was often told to be quiet, to keep to myself, to not bother others and to just be normal. I lived a life of silence and isolation that took years to escape from, even with the help of several friends I met in the Ruby community.

I was alone.

When I was first invited to speak at Southeast Ruby I felt like I was finally accepted, that I had finally managed to be recognized for the things I loved and cared about, and I went there with a good amount of fear that maybe they'd see what everyone else did growing up, and maybe I would not be welcome.

Enter a teddybear of a man, Noah, warm and talking to everyone, who checked in on me as a new speaker and who took a legitimate interest in what I had to say. He was kind, patient, always smiling and always trying to draw out that next idea with an insightful question or a quick quip.

A man I felt had shared some of that deep loneliness, and could understand. A man who chose to turn that into a welcome for anyone who came through those doors.

Everyone is Welcome Here

Over the next several years I got to know Noah better. What he had given to me in that first meeting, that welcome, was something he did for everyone. He would always be there in any corner and any group asking questions.

If you knew no one at a conference you knew Noah, and he'd make sure of it every time.

Noah was a friend to everyone.

A Wise Mentor

But Noah never stopped at a welcome, no, he was a guide and a mentor for generations of Ruby engineers, myself included. He would always make time to answer questions, to talk people through tough career decisions, and to just make sure they were ok.

He always had time for folks who were in need.

He would even take time to walk through his book and provide discounts for those who could not afford it, if not outright give free copies, to help people level up and grow.

A Kind Man

Noah lived a life of teaching, mentorship, and welcome. He was a kind man, he was loved, and he made a difference in an entire generation of Ruby programmers who came to find acceptance through the community in no small part from his contributions to it.

A Man I Hope to Be One Day

The highest praise I can give is that Noah is the type of man I want to become in the future. A kind man who always has time for others, who supports those in need, who encourages and builds communities, and who always welcomes.

Noah was a good man, and I will dearly miss him.

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Kristine Gibbs

Thank you so much for writing like this about Noah. He was like that as a husband too. I was lonely and sad through my whole childhood too. Then he came and found me and gave me a happy life with a happy family.

He was the best man I have ever known.

Thank you for writing this about him.

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Michael Geary

Krissy, my condolences. I worked with Noah at OnLive about ten years ago and remember him fondly.

Here is a photo from the talk Matz gave for our OnLive crew in October 2013:

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Brian Loomis

I had the good fortune of meeting him in Minneapolis, IIRC and spent about 35 minutes visiting with him. In the 30 years I have been in software development I can count distinctly 3 times that what I thought was valid, that I was cable of far more than I thought I was and received good advice that has paid off and proven true. Meeting him and that visit had a profound shape on what I thought possible and the responsibility I had to share what I knew with others and mentor them in turn.

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BetterJoy

Noah Gibbs embodies the qualities of a true mentor, friend, and ally. With his guidance and support, he helps others grow both personally and professionally. Whether offering wisdom, lending a listening ear, or standing by those in need, Noah’s presence has a lasting, positive impact on everyone he encounters. His dedication to helping others is a testament to his character and leadership.

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