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How to Flirt with a Developer: Learn to Debug Your Love Life

Sukhpinder Singh on October 09, 2024

I’m writing this story not because I am single [💔] but because I am tired of solving bugs alone. For me, it is just a fun way to present...
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Valeria

I think humans are a little more complex than that 😅 I’ve met quite a few of developers and the vast majority had hobbies and interests outside of development. And I’m yet to meet one that enjoys debugging.
Some people I worked with over the years do like grand gestures and are romantic to the core, some aren’t interested in relationships at all and most are somewhere in between.
Most couples I know of have only one dev in them: they’re married or dating designers, musicians, architects (and not the software ones) and sales people or even product managers, so it wouldn’t be a stretch to assume that IT isn’t what brought them together.
And even in a scenario where both people are working in the exact same IT role, like yours truly and my partner, it wasn’t JavaScript that kicked off our relationship; we still have occasional holy wars over methodologies and certain tools.

And if you’re looking for a general approach, I think in the end of the day deep care and respect for each with a dash of shared values would take you a longer way than an IT pun. Show interest, ask how you can help, be yourself and try and see your love interest for all what they are.

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Sukhpinder Singh

Well said.

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James

Sorry, I read you first line and shut down. Humans aren't more complicated than that. Lol.

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Valeria

It’s a pity you stopped there since the rest of my comment was the reasoning I had for that claim and we would’ve had a fruitful conversation where you’d provide yours, but alas :)

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James

All good. I did actually read it, just being a jack... :)

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Valeria

I see :) So what’s your reasoning for humans being not that complicated?

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Sukhpinder Singh

lol

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Sukhpinder Singh

I think we often overcomplicate things, but at our core, humans are driven by pretty simple motivations

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Valeria

So what drives me? What drives you? Is it the same thing?

 
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Sukhpinder Singh

You're right, it's unfortunate that we didn't get to exchange our thoughts fully!

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Sukhpinder Singh

No worries, I get it! Sometimes the first line says it all. 😄

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Andromeda

You are expecting too much from a chat gpt article 😅

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Sukhpinder Singh

Oo Really, i guess this screenshot is for you

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Sukhpinder Singh

feel free to "Copy Paste" and check

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Andromeda

Good to see that, my bad, the cheesy pickup lines made me think that it was written by an AI.

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Sukhpinder Singh

Pickup lines were indeed from pintrest

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Shafayet Hossain

Your humor and tech references make flirting with developers sound like a fun puzzle. The geeky compliments are spot on! Maybe, I should try ones😅😅

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Sukhpinder Singh

Thanks a lot, let me know how well did it go

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Sukhpinder Singh

Finally my motivation to write more

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Suryan S

Ah this just made my day!!!!

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Sukhpinder Singh

I'm glad

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Algo7

This is such a unique post. Absolutely love it!

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Sukhpinder Singh

Thanks a lot, part 2 coming soon

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Sufian mustafa

Wow, this was such a fun read! Thanks for giving us a reason to laugh and smile today.😅😅

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Sukhpinder Singh

You're welcome, keep reading

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ONI OLUSEGUN ADEBAYO

Great 👍

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Sukhpinder Singh

Thank you

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Adeyeye Ayomide Timothy

Okay this is dope. I enjoyed reading this.

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Sukhpinder Singh

Thanks a lot for your comment, keep reading

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koo lam

def have to try these out

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Sukhpinder Singh

Sure, i would keen to know how it went

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Mayank Chawdhari

Good one

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Sukhpinder Singh

Thanks a lot

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cumulus13

🤣

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Brian Sikute, CLA

Wow!!!! On point!!

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Sukhpinder Singh

High five

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Punith Gowda

Oh hi

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Sukhpinder Singh

hey

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Punith Gowda

Hello

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venkat reddy

👏 very good thought 😃

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Sukhpinder Singh

Thanks

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Gad Iradufasha

Thanks for sharing you made my kotlin + vue.js project easier I was stuck losing hope but you brought back my motivations
Hey!!!

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Sukhpinder Singh

I'm glad you're motivated.

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Nick Huson

“We’ve been in beta for a while. Do you think we’re ready to push this relationship to production?”

Well, that's a unique way to inquire about having babies.

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Sukhpinder Singh

lol :D

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Bello Adeyinka Toha

Quite a long post but quite insightful

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Sukhpinder Singh

Thanks a lot

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Sahir Khan

Your article is a compile-time error fix for my day! Laughed so hard I almost crashed my IDE. Keep the humor in the repository!

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Sukhpinder Singh

Thanks a lot for ur comment

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Juansecu

Hahaha, this has made my day! It is really fun, and some things you mention may be true for haunting some developers hearts.

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Sukhpinder Singh

Thanks a lot for kind comment, part2 coming soon

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CatalinRadoi

I've never seen so many memes in one place.

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Jerount

The headline is fire! 😂