I've been there brother, I think the best thing you can do is know how others see you.
I'm a woman :D
but thanks, comrade.
I agree such things are not controllable; all we can do is control how we react.
Sometimes you can control it. What was the reason you were removed?
I'm going to write a longer post with reflections on it.
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