My go-to stack is Java, but that's because I'm already proficient with it. I personally don't like PHP or Ruby but they might be a good choice for you if you already have access to existing projects using them.
If you're looking at learning something new, then try a statically typed language: Java, C#, Kotlin, you name it. Learn what static typing brings on the table, and its "limits" (it's sometimes frustrating but it can really save your ass too)
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My go-to stack is Java, but that's because I'm already proficient with it. I personally don't like PHP or Ruby but they might be a good choice for you if you already have access to existing projects using them.
If you're looking at learning something new, then try a statically typed language: Java, C#, Kotlin, you name it. Learn what static typing brings on the table, and its "limits" (it's sometimes frustrating but it can really save your ass too)