You know that scene in every disaster movie where someone’s desperately shouting into a walkie-talkie, trying to get a team to evacuate, but no one’s listening because there’s a meteor heading for Earth?
Yeah. That’s exactly what project management in tech feels like—except the meteor is scope creep and the walkie-talkie is Slack.
My Accidental Entry into Tech Project Management
I didn’t grow up dreaming of being a project manager. No child has ever shouted, “One day, I’ll coordinate sprint planning and argue about story points!”
I fell into it. Like many of us do.
I was a product intern at a scrappy SaaS startup, and our PM quit two days before a product launch. Our CEO looked around the office, pointed at me—coffee in one hand, panic in both eyes—and said, “You’re organized. You’re the PM now.”
Reader, I was not organized.
But I learned. The hard way.
Tech Project Management: What People Think I Do vs. What I Actually Do
People think tech project managers just manage timelines. Create a few Trello cards. Maybe say “synergy” in a meeting and go back to drinking iced coffee.
Here’s the truth: 70% of the job is emotional intelligence. The other 30% is translating chaos into a spreadsheet that stakeholders won’t openly laugh at.
I’ve mediated feuds between frontend and backend devs over button spacing. I’ve had engineers promise features by Friday that didn’t exist as concepts on Monday.
And through it all, I’ve smiled, updated the roadmap, and said things like, “Let’s circle back on that.”
The “Triangle of Doom”: Time, Scope, Budget
There’s a sacred triangle in project management: Time, Scope, and Budget. You can have two. Maybe.
In tech, this often looks like:
- Stakeholder: “Can we launch this new app in four weeks?”
- Me: laughs nervously in Gantt chart
Real Case Study: The Sprint That Broke My Soul (and Also Taught Me Everything)
A sleek mobile app MVP. It seemed doable—until week one, when:
- The lead developer got COVID.
- The designer moved to Portugal (mid-sprint, I might add).
- The API we were relying on got deprecated. Overnight.
I cried in the shower twice that week.
But we made it work. We reduced the scope (with some Jedi-level stakeholder negotiation). We rebuilt the API logic in-house with the remaining devs.
We delivered. Was it exactly what we’d envisioned on day one? No. But it worked, and it launched on time.
That was the week I realized: success in tech PM isn’t about perfection. It’s about navigating imperfection without burning down the sprint board.
Tools I Swear By (and Occasionally Swear At)
Let’s talk tools. People always ask what the best tool is.
Truth: it’s the one your team actually uses.
Personally:
- Jira is powerful but can feel like a dungeon unless set up well.
- Notion is sexy but turns into chaos if not managed like a lab experiment.
- Trello is great for small teams or solo projects—less “project manager,” more “organized chaos coordinator.”
- Slack is… Slack. Great for communication. Also great for forgetting important messages under a GIF avalanche.
And don’t even get me started on “urgent” Zoom calls that could’ve been a Loom.
Burnout, Boundaries, and Saying “No” Without Crying
Here’s the emotional part no one warns you about: PMs absorb a lot of stress.
We’re the pressure valve between leadership and execution. When things go right, we quietly update the status doc while the dev team gets pizza.
I had to learn boundaries the hard way. I once answered messages at midnight. Every night. For two months.
Now? My Slack status says “Do Not Disturb” after 6 PM. I schedule “focus blocks” like sacred rituals. I say “No” a lot more—and not just to feature creep, but to burnout.
Because honestly?
Why I Still Love This Job (Even on the Hard Days)
Despite the chaos, despite the curveballs and unreadable burndown charts, I love being a PM in tech.
Because there’s nothing like the moment a product goes live and you realize—you were part of the glue that held it all together. You made sense of madness. You turned a list of half-baked ideas into something real, useful, beautiful even.
And yeah, sometimes I still get weirdly excited about color-coded timelines. Sue me.
Conclusion
If you're considering becoming a tech project manager, here’s my honest pitch: it’s not glamorous. It’s not easy. But it’s meaningful.
You’ll wear many hats: therapist, translator, firefighter, peace negotiator, snack-provider.
But when it all comes together—when the team high-fives you in Slack, the client’s thrilled, and the app works—you’ll know it was worth every missed lunch, awkward sprint retro, and “quick call that lasted 90 minutes.”
And if nothing else, at least you’ll have some great stories.
Like the time I accidentally scheduled a product launch during a national holiday… in three different countries.
But hey. That’s a story for another blog.
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