My husband and I actually met each other first at a hackathon!
It's pretty great having another developer as a spouse. We can talk about code (even though we focus on different ends of the stack) and we understand when certain bugs frustrate us, and we work on projects together sometimes.
At the same time... you do have to work hard to not bring up work throughout the day, because you'll get very sick of talking about tech all the time!
All this to say: Having a dev as a spouse is definitely a nice thing, but it's also probably the least important thing to look for in a partner. :)
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My husband and I actually met each other first at a hackathon!
It's pretty great having another developer as a spouse. We can talk about code (even though we focus on different ends of the stack) and we understand when certain bugs frustrate us, and we work on projects together sometimes.
At the same time... you do have to work hard to not bring up work throughout the day, because you'll get very sick of talking about tech all the time!
All this to say: Having a dev as a spouse is definitely a nice thing, but it's also probably the least important thing to look for in a partner. :)