I spend an hour commute debriefing my day, prepping for tomorrow, asking myself questions, yelling about issues and when i walk in the door i drop all of that (usually). Then it's all about spending some time with the wife and kids and getting them ready for bed. Once that's done, I unwind by catching up on news and watching netflix, youtube or playing some video games. A drink or two is sometimes deserved/needed.
One of the best parts of my day is coming home to kids so excited to see you that their heads almost explode as they scream my name and run to give hugs.
That sounds awesome. Have you thought about working remotely?
Edit: asking as someone who is probably going to have kids
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