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How I keep going when I just want to quit.

Jeremy Schuurmans on September 04, 2019

I had originally intended this post to be a technical write-up about how I built my second Rails app. Where the idea came from, heroic descriptions...
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Josh Yap

As a primarily self-taught dev, I know these feelings all too well. That said, I think it is important to keep all these things in perspective and have clearly defined goals.

If my goal was to be a senior software engineer in 6 months, I would be setting myself up for failure and the appropriate amount of disappointment.

Instead, I try to focus on small, bite-sized goals that are achievable in small time frames and aim towards a main overarching goal. For example, I am just trying to build a progressive web app calculator with react in the next few weeks after work. I am going to keep focusing on small projects like this until I can get a solid portfolio together and land a junior developer job.

Rather than focusing on the literal technical aspects of learning to program, I like to frame my progress as learning just a bit more than I knew last week.

This sounds super intuitive, but it has helped me crawl out of some mood funks. Of course, I want to be able to claim "software developer" as my job title, but I also want to be able to enjoy both the journey and the role. Keeping things positive and fun helps me stay motivated and not burnt out.

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Jeremy Schuurmans

I think that's really great advice. Personally, I always struggle with focusing on the now and enjoying the journey, but you're right. If we can build great products one line of code at a time, we can build our lives and careers one small piece at a time too.

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Sebastián Duque G • Edited

Thanks for the article. I think everyone goes through this in life. If you haven't, you will.

A really good song for those days when motivation is below low: youtube.com/watch?v=ZkzY29DKHEQ

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Jeremy Schuurmans

Thanks for that! I had never heard of that band before, and I'm always interested in new music. That's a really good song, and motivating too!

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James Lau

Thank you for this motivating article! I think the forgotten phase when learning to code is, "but I was asking for help a little bit less". This is a good sign. It's hard to get to this point, but many don't realize that this phase is past the massive and painful hurdles!

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Jeremy Schuurmans

I know many people who would be comforted by this, me included. It does get better!

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Joel Varty

As an English major who turned into a programmer, I can relate to a lot of the stuff in your post, for sure.

Thanks for posting, and keep after it!