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Andras Bacsai

That is true and very sad. But loneliness is a different thing than not having friends.

I'm not lonely. I have a lovely family. ๐Ÿ‘จโ€๐Ÿ‘ฉโ€๐Ÿ‘งโ€๐Ÿ‘ฆ (Sometimes it would be cool to be alone just for a couple of hours ๐Ÿ˜„)

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Jan Klass

You can make that time if you plan for it.

That you have a family is probably a big contributor for why you do not need/do feel that you do not need friends. You do get your social interaction from them. Hopefully you can call your family friends? :)

But without such a family I think there is a need for friends even for very introverted people. Not everyone and not all the time, but as a social and tribal creature it is ingrained in us.

There are coping mechanisms to work around not having those needs met, but I think those are mostly band-aids.

In the end it comes down to the individual. And as a matter of fact many people do feel lonely. With or without friends or partners.