Hey Kevin, thanks for the great reply and food for thought.
From practicing these concepts with clients daily, I often soften a belief by presenting it as a feeling where the feeling can be easily assumed - but only in cases where if the feeling itself were said, the other person my take on the guilt as if it were said to be caused by them even though that is what is being avoided - or attempted to.
Though, to footnote that though, I rarely do that in spoken communication as I am able to offer more nuance to the communication that pure written communication would do.
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Hey Kevin, thanks for the great reply and food for thought.
From practicing these concepts with clients daily, I often soften a belief by presenting it as a feeling where the feeling can be easily assumed - but only in cases where if the feeling itself were said, the other person my take on the guilt as if it were said to be caused by them even though that is what is being avoided - or attempted to.
Though, to footnote that though, I rarely do that in spoken communication as I am able to offer more nuance to the communication that pure written communication would do.