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Did You Have a Mentor, and Did It Help You?

Yan Levin on October 25, 2024

My Experience with Mentorship Yes, I had a mentor, and it greatly shaped my career. First, I thought one could learn all by themselves b...
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Martin Baun

I have always found mentors to be extremely valuable.
I'm lucky that my bosses (at the time when I was younger in my career) really took me under their wing, gave me valuable advice about life and work and all the things...and we've been able to keep in touch over the years and reconnect easily.

I try to play the same role for my employees as the team lead and I feel it fosters a great sense of team, but also that degree of personal care that is meaningful for the person vs as a team leader delegating tasks and such.

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Cesar Aguirre

Those kind of bosses are rare but really valuable

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Yan Levin

Thatโ€™s fantastic! Itโ€™s great that youโ€™re paying it forward with your team. Thanks for sharing

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Navneet Verma

Should be work on a project where people can find mentors? Like a platform to connect people willing to learn and people willing to be their mentor? If interested ping me! We can work together on this!

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Yan Levin • Edited

You can find my email in my bio. Feel free to email me!

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@whereisthebug

I personally never had a mentor myself, but I love to read about different people learn. There are so many ways to learn! Some people learn on their own, others prefer bootcamps, others rely on mentors. etc. I do have a little experience being a mentor to a coworker years ago.

My mentor wasn't there to answer my questions but to challenge my thoughts toward critical thinking-challenging solutions and encouraging me to experiment.

That's the key! A good mentor should not give you the answer, they should guide you so you can arrive to the right answer by yourself.

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Yan Levin

Exactly! A true mentor guides you to find the answer yourself, not just gives it to you.

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Antoine Raymond

I had a mentor at my previous job, he learned me the basics. When he left, I had the feeling that I did not learn new concepts as much as I did before. I was good and I could develop entire features by my own, but I knew that I could learn so much more.

So I left for another company and I am still there. I work with skilled developers, I learned new stuff thanks to them, like TDD, DDD, SOLID principles and hexagonal architecture, all the cool stuff ^^

In my opinion, working with other developers is decisive for your career. Your colleagues solve problems from another angle, with their own knowledges.

Outside of your job, a great way to learn new things is to work together on a side project with a certain complexity.

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Yan Levin

Side projects are also fantastic for learning new concepts and tackling challenges in a collaborative way. Thanks for sharing!

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Cesar Aguirre

Not formally and without the label.

I can pin point two or three people in my career that were like "mentors."

At past jobs, I had the chance of working next to my team architects and learned a lot from them. And at another job, one day I decided to reach out to my boss' boss with genuine questions, he was open and kind to answer them. From that point, we started to have 1-1s outside the normal ceremonies.

So if you're looking for a mentor, don't ask anyone to "be your mentor." That would imply commitment for one side. Instead go with genuine questions, show interest in the other person, help him somehow, and show you're taking action on the advice/input you're given.

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Yan Levin

Great approach! Thanks for sharing

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Shagun Bidawatka

Hi, how you found a mentor and how you choose a right mentor?

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Yan Levin

Hi! I was lucky to meet my mentor at the college I graduated. So it was pretty simple for me as I didn't have to search for him, our paths just crossed

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Risha Mason

I'm so glad I followed you a year ago. So many useful articles and thoughts. You're very helpful. You have undeservedly few views

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Yan Levin

Thank you!

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Tymek Zapaล‚a

Yes. Every mentor I had allowed me to overcome problems that I did not see I had. This is very important because those problems are hardest so solve by yourself.

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Yan Levin

Absolutely, thatโ€™s one of the biggest values a mentor can bring. Thanks for sharing

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Ahmed Thakeb

i wish i could have a mentor

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Yan Levin

I hope youโ€™ll find your mentor. Just needs some time

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Jelena Jovanovic • Edited

Yes, my mentor is actually my husband โค๏ธŽ and heโ€™s been a huge part of my learning process. He introduced me to web development 12 years ago and has been by my side throughout the journey. He guided me with insights and shortcuts that saved me time. By sharing what he learned, he helped me avoid the same struggles he had, making my progress faster and more focused.

Iโ€™ve grown in my own direction beyond what I first learned from him, but his motto of "sharing is caring" has stayed with me to live by. At one point I was also mentoring others and itโ€™s amazing to see people make progress, get jobs, and become successful. Knowing youโ€™ve helped someone is so rewarding and motivating.

In summary: If you get a chance to have a mentor, go for it! Not everyone will be a perfect fit, but it can really speed up your progress. Figuring things out on your own is great, practice makes perfect, but good advice and tips along the way are always helpful and welcome.

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Stefan Smiljkovic

thank you!

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Wade Zimmerman

Mentorship sucks in the moment. Once both are fed up, that's when things get interesting.

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Dimitrios Desyllas

No I never felt I had a mentor. Usually what I did was my own and the internet.

The problems I solved were my mentor.

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Jayson Olaguera

Yes I got some mentor especially during my newbie days, where they teach me and challenge me that will help me to boost not only skill but emotionally and gave me a lot of important lessons.

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Shagun Bidawatka • Edited

You can find a mentor on here - hito.chat/
And can connect with the mentors on platform - topmate.io/

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kelly_kenneth

i wish i could have a mentor

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