How’s it going, I'm a Adam, a Full-Stack Engineer, actively searching for work. I'm all about JavaScript. And Frontend but don't let that fool you - I've also got some serious Backend skills.
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City of Bath, UK 🇬🇧
Education
10 plus years* active enterprise development experience and a Fine art degree 🎨
It's all going to be fine. You won't get much sleep but that's not instantly, it takes a couple of weeks.
Everyone WILL cut you quite a lot of slack!
If your wife asks for help, get up and do that, then get back to work.
Have a clear routine, I do Thurs, Friday, Sat nights and then I sleep in Sunday and I also get up every morning and get him ready and she sleeps in most mornings. This works for a 2yr old but you get the point.
I do work to learn every evening but I would imagine you won't want to do that until your ready.
Most importantly nothing anyone says will help you because everyone gets a different experience, you will make it work and be shocked how much your baby changes you.
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It's all going to be fine. You won't get much sleep but that's not instantly, it takes a couple of weeks.
Everyone WILL cut you quite a lot of slack!
If your wife asks for help, get up and do that, then get back to work.
Have a clear routine, I do Thurs, Friday, Sat nights and then I sleep in Sunday and I also get up every morning and get him ready and she sleeps in most mornings. This works for a 2yr old but you get the point.
I do work to learn every evening but I would imagine you won't want to do that until your ready.
Most importantly nothing anyone says will help you because everyone gets a different experience, you will make it work and be shocked how much your baby changes you.