When our kid arrived, I took the first month parental leave. Babies usually sleep a lot more than most people anticipate. Having a full time job to work will be stressful, sure, but I'm sure you'll manage. Improvise the first few days until you can see patterns and routines, then plan out your days with your wife. Do that regularly, as your life will be constantly changing from now on. Having a plan helps a lot.
Block time for yourself and the kid. Bonding time is invaluable - never leave that out.
I guess most jobs are remote by now. The same rules apply as for everyone else. Try to have a room or distraction-free space. Use noise cancelling headphones. Take breaks to be with your family.
Yes, you will die of sleep deprivation. You'll continue to do so for a long time. And it'll be worth it :)
Since you're asking for advice online: every child is different. My tips might be absolute trash, because your parenthood is the polar opposite of mine. You'll find your own way.
Another thing: talk to other dads. Your wife will probably have some contact to other moms and have peers to talk about parent life. That's really helpful, try to do the same.
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When our kid arrived, I took the first month parental leave. Babies usually sleep a lot more than most people anticipate. Having a full time job to work will be stressful, sure, but I'm sure you'll manage. Improvise the first few days until you can see patterns and routines, then plan out your days with your wife. Do that regularly, as your life will be constantly changing from now on. Having a plan helps a lot.
Block time for yourself and the kid. Bonding time is invaluable - never leave that out.
I guess most jobs are remote by now. The same rules apply as for everyone else. Try to have a room or distraction-free space. Use noise cancelling headphones. Take breaks to be with your family.
Yes, you will die of sleep deprivation. You'll continue to do so for a long time. And it'll be worth it :)
Since you're asking for advice online: every child is different. My tips might be absolute trash, because your parenthood is the polar opposite of mine. You'll find your own way.
Another thing: talk to other dads. Your wife will probably have some contact to other moms and have peers to talk about parent life. That's really helpful, try to do the same.