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John Colagioia (he/him)

So, when people tell you and research shows that you--you, specifically, since you are defending this behavior by saying that it's fine--that something is hurting them, you think "progress" lies in ignoring the harm. Gotcha. That's everything that I need to know about you.

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Varun Subramanian

Now what you did there judging me is “Offending” me. Are you going to apologise or are you going to ignore? Let us see what kind of a person you are now.

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John Colagioia (he/him)

I'm describing your behavior. I'm now judging you for trying to defend your behavior instead of examining it. It's 2021; I've stopped caring what misogynists think about me.

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Varun Subramanian

The fact that you don’t want to apologise shows that you are arguing for the sake of it and you are contradicting what you had said earlier.

I don’t want to waste my time with someone who is not constructive enough. Take care.