Great read. We've used a lot of the same resources and it is wonderful to hear how someone else blazed their own path. I especially appreciated the portion where you mention not comparing ourselves to others. I don't think anyone intends to sabotage themselves with this practice. Nonetheless, it's an insidious habit that can spring to the fore when we're feeling most vulnerable. I've found success in practicing compassion toward the part of myself that's expressing judgement. When strong thoughts about a delta between myself and others come up, I honestly give myself a hug and let the feelings mellow a bit, then continue moving forward.
Thank you for what you have done and continue to do, Tae'lur.
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Great read. We've used a lot of the same resources and it is wonderful to hear how someone else blazed their own path. I especially appreciated the portion where you mention not comparing ourselves to others. I don't think anyone intends to sabotage themselves with this practice. Nonetheless, it's an insidious habit that can spring to the fore when we're feeling most vulnerable. I've found success in practicing compassion toward the part of myself that's expressing judgement. When strong thoughts about a delta between myself and others come up, I honestly give myself a hug and let the feelings mellow a bit, then continue moving forward.
Thank you for what you have done and continue to do, Tae'lur.