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Discussion on: Have You Ever Felt Intimidated to Ask 'Basic' Questions?

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Jean-Michel πŸ•΅πŸ»β€β™‚οΈ Fayard

Being afraid to ask a question is very very common

Too much pride, too much ego, too much shame

I see multiple communities that have a channel #no-dumb-questions

And at some point you have to wonder: why is it necessary to say that in the first place ?

The issue is that devs and people in general have internalized super high standards of what "smart questions" are

Problem is that if you don't meet the requireemnts, by definition you are kind of dumb. And you don't want to be dumb, do you?

So you stay with your ego and your misery and stay with you unanswered questions, go in the internet, enter a rabbit hole, and do the same mistakes as everyone else.

I think this is a really toxic culture.

The most important questions in life are naive, are when you start, you don't even know how to formulate it properly.

Ask, just ask.

There’s no shame in asking a vague or incomplete question. That’s what questions are for. They’re to learn. So start with what you know to ask, and go from there.

The problem is not dumb questions, the problem who rush to give a quick answewr