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Manuel Artero Anguita 🟨
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When Volunteering Turns into a Demanding Job Offer?

A few months ago, I reached out to a local volunteer organization that works with teenagers and young adults at risk of social exclusion.

This group operates like a vocational training center, focusing on IT skills and network support.

When I initially contacted them, I offered to volunteer by giving a talk or running a workshop. They responded, asking if I could do it in English πŸ«– (which is not our native language), and I agreed.

Fast forward, they got back in touch.

They asked if I could organize a full English course, find and manage another teacher to co-host it, and cover weekly classes on Tuesdays and Thursdays at 11 AM.

Unexpected.

I had to explain that with a full-time job and teaching responsibilities in a master's program, there was no way I could commit to that kind of schedule.

I’d be happy to give an occasional talk, but covering twice-weekly English classes? πŸ€·β€β™‚οΈ

Their response was, to be honest, quite blunt. It ended with something like, β€œmaybe you can find a replacement.”

A replacement?

I’m not sure if there was a misunderstanding or if this person is used to making demands. I mean, this is a volunteer association, and all the effort would be unpaid.

Disappointing.

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Snowman β€’

Thanks for sharing your experience. It sounds like a tough situation, and I can understand your disappointment. Offering your time and expertise as a volunteer is already a generous contribution, so it’s frustrating when expectations shift so dramatically.

Take care, and I’m here if you want to talk more about it.

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Anthony J. Borla β€’

I thought it would be illuminating, perhaps even amusing, to provide a famous science fiction writer's take on providing effort (or the product of such effort) for no compensation.

Here is the YouTube link: Excerpt: "Dreams with Sharp Teeth"

Please note, the language is harsh in parts, so viewer discretion is recommended.

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Manuel Artero Anguita 🟨 β€’

I fundamentally agree.

Just a detail: he is talking about a company making a product (dvd). The point is absolutely correct : they want to make this product reducing the costs and are used to get work for free.

I’ve been in this association , I do understand the value of trying to reach teenagers that might end up doing drugs.

The association get money from another source for sure (local government) , but I see a difference to a company?

Anyway, I doubt they will call me even for the talk I volunteer in the first place.

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JoelBonetR πŸ₯‡ β€’

I couldn't agree more; bossing around volunteers is disgusting.

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