You are 38 years old, so I think your kids are at a young age,
so you will have around 10 years until they are grown-up
and your time with them will decrease.
You can be a developer until your death,
but not a father to young children.
So to spend time with your kids AND to leverage your studies,
I would set the #1 goal to getting a dev job asap,
that means building and showing that you can develop.
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Hello Justin,
nice to meet you.
You are 38 years old, so I think your kids are at a young age,
so you will have around 10 years until they are grown-up
and your time with them will decrease.
You can be a developer until your death,
but not a father to young children.
So to spend time with your kids AND to leverage your studies,
I would set the #1 goal to getting a dev job asap,
that means building and showing that you can develop.