We should look at the language we use when we commit to doing something, as the telltale sign of things to come. Actually, its more a matter of looking for specific words in what we say. If you cant find those little magic words, chances
are we dont mean what we say, or we may not believe it to be feasible.
Here are some examples of words and phrases to look for that are telltale signs of noncommitment:
• Need\should. “We need to get this done.” “I need to lose weight.” “Someone should make that happen.”
• Hope\wish. “I hope to get this done by tomorrow.” “I hope we can meet again some day.” “I wish I had time for that.” “I wish this computer was faster.”
•Let’s. (not followed by “I . . .”) “Let’s meet sometime.” “Let’s finish this thing.”
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