Why Your Best Senior Dev Just Quit (Not the Salary)
3 AM. Slack pings. "Prod down again." Alex, your 8-year senior wizard, is already SSH'd in—fixed the race condition before coffee brewers wake. By 4 AM, users tweet "back online." No fanfare. Just magic.
Monday. Alex resigns. Exit interview: "personal reasons." You check Levels.fyi. No competing offer jump. What broke the unbreakable?
The Code Review That Broke Him
Friday PR. Alex's 300-line masterpiece scales to 10M users. Architecture flawless. 48 comments flood in:
"Prefer tabs?"
"Variable name could be clearer"
"This if-statement feels nested?"
No mention of the distributed cache solving yesterday's outage.
Alex's internal monologue: "I fixed their production fire. They debate my semicolons."
He stops submitting PRs early. Submits 2AM monoliths instead. Stops caring. Week 4: first late standup update.
Death by 15-Minute Meetings
Alex's calendar: 13 hours of syncs. Sprint planning. "Quick blocker removes." Daily standup theater.
His genius? Holding 500K-line mental models. Flow state crushes Heisenbugs. But 18-minute calendar fragments kill it.
Week 6: Juniors get "protected time." Alex fields PMs: "Why can't we just add the button?" He starts blocking "thinking."
Week 8: Open-source commits spike at midnight.
The Manager Who Wouldn't Fight Upward
Alex to you (1:1): "Can we kill this feature bloat? Users hate it."
You: "VP wants the metrics."
Alex stops asking. Fights scope creep solo. Week 10: "What's your long-term here?" he probes. Silence.
Gallup was right: people quit managers, not companies. Week 12: Resignation letter.
The Ugly Truths (And Fixes)
Red flags you missed:
- PRs at 2 AM
- Calendar "focus time" during standups
- One-word updates
- GitHub activity explodes
3 fixes that work:
- Cap PRs at 400 lines. Train "impact first" feedback.
- 4-hour deep work blocks. Async everything non-urgent.
- Sponsor upward. Give air cover. Budget POCs. Match to migrations.
Alex didn't quit for money. He quit when mastery met mediocrity. Fix your system, or your next 3 AM savior tweets their notice from bed.
Your move.
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