I would say it definitely happens in the professional realm. It isn't quite as heated as online toxicity, but it can cause some similar negative feelings. I think it is all about how software development is almost entirely subjective which leads to difficult conversations.
Software development is subjective because there is no science to it. There is computer science which is the basis of it, but that is more of a mathematical discipline. Modern programming languages are abstractions on top of the 1s and 0s, so anyone is free to create or use a programming language for a program as long as it can be translated to run on a computer. Different developers have different tastes and different types of programs could benefit from different programming language features. It is someone's opinion making that choice, not a well-defined set of rules based in science.
I think that the subjectivity is the root of any elitism in development. Developer A is writing a program a certain way using a particular language, developer B tells them that they shouldn't be writing it that way or using that language. I feel that represents the format of any negative interaction regarding software development, but there is no clear winner.
This manifests itself in the workplace regularly. It may not be hostile like online comments, but it can be difficult to navigate. At times, being a software developer can be more about working with people than working with code. Everyone thinks differently and it can be hard to reach a consensus. When developers cannot work together effectively, it leads to different styles of programming or a mix of tools being used. This negatively impacts the product, the budget, and the overall team morale. One developer could be concerned with getting a task done as quickly as possible with no regard for future problems, another developer might have heard that functional programming is the new hotness and they want to rewrite all the things, and a third developer could be jaded from hastily implemented code or jaded from adopting something that was not the right fit. Combine that that with personalities and emotions, it can quickly turn into a heated discussion over what is best.
To avoid this at work, I recommend a few things:
Great response, I think the "we should use a different language/tool/stack" conversation can definitely be a constructive one if properly explained and justified, not always the case online 😁.
My point with my previous answer was: do you really know if I was joking? Or trolling? Or was I serious? The main problem with texting answers is that we are missing few things like face and voice. Yes I could use other tone of voice or a emoji to change the tone of voice and sounds friendly... That happen also in real Life.
What is elitist for you? One of my best friends is a really smart person. Her answers are usually not well received by others. Mostly people Who don't really know her. And believe me, most of the time when she talks we could agree that she sounds elitist. But she is not. It's the way she see and understand things and the way she express herself.
Are there jerks in rl and internet? A lot. What we do? We Ignore jerks. Plain and simple. But try to catalog people and you probably make a mistake missjudging someone. This is my view of this topic.
Of course you should give people the benefit of the doubt whenever possible, and I agree that online it is very easy to misinterpret what people says due to text lacking the nuance of the spoken word. That said, someone replying to a Stack Overflow post with "lol u should know that ur not a real programmer", "use a better language insert language here sucks!" or "don't call yourself a dev if you don't know assembly" is evidently not trying to help anyone and in my opinion falls into the category of elitist.
Hey Ryan this is a great comment and it should get more visibility. Some of the things you said inspired me to discuss the topic in a video that I posted today:
Thank you, I'm glad it inspired 😄. Nice job on the video, I enjoyed the deep dive into this topic and the additional points you made.
We're a place where coders share, stay up-to-date and grow their careers.
We strive for transparency and don't collect excess data.