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GrahamTheDev

Hey, normally I would find this amusing and given our past interactions I will certainly give it the benefit of the doubt, but given recent events this doesn't sit well with me coming from someone associated with DEV.

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Ella (she/her/elle)

Which part of it do you object to, in particular?

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GrahamTheDev • Edited

As I got banned for roasting someone (and they specifically asked for it), receiving a mini-roast from someone associated with DEV certainly does not sit well.

You were also unfortunate enough to mention that the article could be removed even after being read by yourself when the article in question that resulted in the ban had been read by members of the DEV team and then suddenly became an issue when someone with a sense of humour deficiency decided to take it all literally, going so far as to say I "berated" someone.

Couple it with "Such an upstanding citizen", "I'm starting to think you thrive on drama" and "you're clearly one to stir the pot" and you just happened to fall on the wrong side of things and had bad timing.

As I said we have interacted enough times that i know you meant nothing by it, you are just unfortunate to have hit on everything that would annoy me coming from someone at DEV / FOREM at the moment in just a few paragraphs (even the bug report bit as I even reported a bug while banned).

Send me some abuse on Twitter, same handle, you know I love it normally, it is just the "power dynamic" on here.

But not on here, on here you are DEV / FOREM and so it just feels highly inappropriate as it does not, from my understanding, fit here.

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Ella (she/her/elle)

Thanks for taking the time to spell that out. I understand where you're coming from, and I'm willing to apologize if it felt like I was in any way abusing a power dynamic.

I do want to shed some light on something you said: the DEV Community Team is a team at Forem, but it's not the entire staff of Forem. They are the people who make the difficult decisions about what content stays and what content needs to be adjusted, based on their assessment of the community's needs and responses to said content. It's an unenviable job (I should know, I used to be on that team and it was hard!), and they do a frankly incredible job balancing the diversity of voices and perspectives in the community.

the article in question that resulted in the ban had been read by members of the DEV team and then suddenly became an issue

Sometimes the rest of us may react to content that the Community Team ultimately decides to remove. That's on us for being a diverse group of humans with a range of perspectives on life, love, and the nature of the universe - but please don't hold it against them. They're kind, empathic people, doing the best they can to uphold a safe and welcoming space for others.

As for my comment on your post, if it was in bad taste, I'm sorry.

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GrahamTheDev

Nah it’s fine I’m just licking my wounds, you were just unfortunate with the timing!

Article removal, no issue, I will moan and move on as always, but ban and the way it was handled was what hurt given how much I interact and the fact that overall I try to be a positive force here.

Ignore me, you just hit me at the wrong time! Next time you roast me I will fire back with my normal vigour! ❤️

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Ella (she/her/elle)

Next time you roast me I will fire back with my normal vigour!

I'll come ready!