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Discussion on: Why I'm Not One of the Guys

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Jesse Phillips • Edited

I think that there is another way to look at language. Words change meaning over time, as a living language.

Gay used to refer to being happy.

Guy is also a rope for tying down tents.

Many have come to accept or view the use of guy/dude as gender neutral. This to me seems an acceptable way for language to evolve.

I think people underestimate the subconscious nature of one's vernacular. We all grow up in different cultures and learned behaviors. Someone expressing themselves in a means which has no ill intent (and never viewed that way before) is going to have a hard time trying to watch every phrase to ensure they scrub any new offensive words.

I believe that eliminating and replacing words to change a language is a great way to alienate those who may otherwise be supportive. But here is the lucky part, we'll grow old and die and allow a new generation to struggle with this every changing world where so much hate is flung around wherever it can be justified.

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Jon Randy 🎖️

Nice used to mean 'stupid'
Awful used to mean 'worthy of respect'