Helpful explanation Ben, thanks for taking the time to answer.
Stack Overflow consistently found their answers in modifying the rulebook instead of finding ways to make the rules clearer or getting rid of rules. Kind of like the book of laws in a nation, it can get so lengthy that everyone might be breaking the laws at any time, and it's hard to even predict.
Yup, their rule book is way too long and hard to get to know all of them. I read it way back and never found a reference to not being able to ask for external resources, which is the reason why they closed my question.
The site is very power-user driven, and I think this might be the toughest part. Power users inherently see things differently than everyday users.
Excellent point, this is tough to solve, as most power users also have firm opinions and ideals. It's like asking a doctor about a headache. They most likely will ignore you and tell you to take a pain killer.
I think it is probably more like, forgetting that you were once a child / adolescent; not to mention Generation Gap (e.g. Age of Browser Wars and Expensive CPUs).
It's like asking a doctor about a headache. They most likely will ignore you and tell you to take a pain killer.
If it's not a serious disease, like brain tumor or hemorrhage; but doctors can make wrong diagnoses too. (Can't experts fail?)
Also, what do expect? Kindness? Doctors have too many patients to attend to, and humanitarian works are not as same as kindness.
I think it is probably more like, forgetting that you were once a child / adolescent; not to mention Generation Gap (e.g. Age of Browser Wars and Expensive CPUs).
Oh true, that probably is affecting the platform too.
If it's not a serious disease, like a brain tumor or hemorrhage; but doctors can make wrong diagnoses too. (Can't experts fail?)
They can, they do, and they will make the wrong diagnosis, and that is ok. But always with respect, no need to show that they are better.
Also, what do expect? Kindness? Doctors have too many patients to attend to, and humanitarian works are not as same as kindness.
Every human interaction should (but, of course, it does not) have some level of kindness, empathy, or respect for the other person.
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"Every human interaction should (but, of course, it does not) have some level of kindness, empathy, and respect for the other person."
Just to say I really admire this statement. This is such a great outlook. Now if we can just find a way to make this bit ~(but, of course, it does not)~ haha!
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I'd be more inclined to agree if you changed the and for an or. There are people who are incapable of empathy, but it wouldn't be right to want to exclude them from all interactions, for example. As long as they can be respectful, it's all good.
Good point, yes, I think the most important part for me is respecting each other. I've changed it in the comment and will take that into account in the future.
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Helpful explanation Ben, thanks for taking the time to answer.
Yup, their rule book is way too long and hard to get to know all of them. I read it way back and never found a reference to not being able to ask for external resources, which is the reason why they closed my question.
Excellent point, this is tough to solve, as most power users also have firm opinions and ideals. It's like asking a doctor about a headache. They most likely will ignore you and tell you to take a pain killer.
I think it is probably more like, forgetting that you were once a child / adolescent; not to mention Generation Gap (e.g. Age of Browser Wars and Expensive CPUs).
If it's not a serious disease, like brain tumor or hemorrhage; but doctors can make wrong diagnoses too. (Can't experts fail?)
Also, what do expect? Kindness? Doctors have too many patients to attend to, and humanitarian works are not as same as kindness.
Oh true, that probably is affecting the platform too.
They can, they do, and they will make the wrong diagnosis, and that is ok. But always with respect, no need to show that they are better.
Every human interaction should (but, of course, it does not) have some level of kindness, empathy, or respect for the other person.
"Every human interaction should (but, of course, it does not) have some level of kindness, empathy, and respect for the other person."
Just to say I really admire this statement. This is such a great outlook. Now if we can just find a way to make this bit ~(but, of course, it does not)~ haha!
Hehe thanks! I really stand by that and try to implement it on myself.
I'd be more inclined to agree if you changed the and for an or. There are people who are incapable of empathy, but it wouldn't be right to want to exclude them from all interactions, for example. As long as they can be respectful, it's all good.
Good point, yes, I think the most important part for me is respecting each other. I've changed it in the comment and will take that into account in the future.