In these scenarios, Before making any kind of decisions, one should consult Designers. But I understand the situation if a UX/UI Designer is not in-house. But as Hendra stated for practice purposes I still advise that. As it's a good habit to follow the designer's lead while writing CSS and making changes in design. But again if your designer is not in-house follow your instincts.
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In these scenarios, Before making any kind of decisions, one should consult Designers. But I understand the situation if a UX/UI Designer is not in-house. But as Hendra stated for practice purposes I still advise that. As it's a good habit to follow the designer's lead while writing CSS and making changes in design. But again if your designer is not in-house follow your instincts.