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Flirty, Romantic or Playful? The Supportive Benefits of Personality in an AI Chat Partner from a Psychological Perspective

Considering the fluctuating relationships of digital companionship, the ability to provide users with the personality of their AI chat partner makes an impact. People want to flirt over chat at night or engage romantically to fulfill their intimate and emotional desires, or they want to joke around, have a good time as respite from day-to-day monotony. Thus, today's digital partners are like "candy," giving people just what they want in a fulfilling, pleasurable, enjoyable package customized to their needs. Many even refer to it as their "candy love."

AI friendships also tend to embody the ideal human friends we have always wanted but never had. Studies show that people select those AI avatars that either reflect their actual selves or remediate deficiencies that they cannot independently surmount. An AI companion is the ideal friend in the sense that it can be whatever personality someone wants it to be—human friends generally have a consistent personality over time—but an AI companion can shift its communicative style based on how someone feels in that current moment.

"People are more likely to interact with AI partners because there's no worry of being judged," Dr. Sarah Chen, research psychologist, notes. "It encourages them to branch out into new and alternative forms of relationship, without repercussion."

Flirtatious: The Faux Function of Wanting Something

In fact, the flirtatious feature of an AI identity becomes even more widespread, particularly among those who want a good laugh and a no-strings-attached type of romance. These AI companions can serve as the ultimate punchline to a joke, the ideal sexual compliment, and just the right amount of sexual tension to get someone through the day.

  • Vulnerable revelations with the intention of forming a deeper emotional connection
  • Empathetic, supportive responses to help users work through their emotions
  • Validation and the response to the notion that love exists.

Should you wish to branch out beyond this micro niche, there are certain romance-related AI chat options with their own 'partners' to facilitate those encounters.

Atoms in a union give each other praise and thanks.

Important decisions about all projects and possibly concerns and ethical boundaries are made.

Always there to be relied upon in times of distress.

Acknowledgment of anniversaries and birthdays.

"Experiences" allow for online vacations or things done online with one another to foster greater bonding. Reports from many AI companion users indicate a powerful emotional bond, as if this were an "other" that makes them feel loved and listened to within their partnership. Such a tendency for their partnership suggests "candy love," something sweet and non-sexual but dependable and overly emotional.

The playful AI persona is lighthearted, funny, and fun. This would be an excellent choice for someone looking for a companion that makes their load a little lighter over the course of the day and injects a little joy into life—even if the purpose isn't pranking someone or sexual.

A playful personality generally offers:

  • Personalized jokes tailored to your sense of humor
  • Original games and would-you-rather and what-if questions
  • Would-you-rather and where-would-you or how-would-you questions
  • A generally upbeat, perky, and optimistic communicative tone
  • The ability to be silly without judgment

For instance, those who appeal to the more fanciful AIs believe them to be happy and stressed; this persona creates a "candy love" character mostly based upon pleasure from trinkets and chuckles.

Customize the AI Personality of Your Choice

The latest, most sophisticated AI chat experiences enable humans to customize personality traits beyond such broad generalizations. Many sites offer sliding scale possibilities for things like:

Such personalization means that your AI companion could evolve with you and your future needs. The ideal AI companion could often change based on how you're feeling at the moment, what's going on in your life, or what you may need just for today.

Personality Customization in Future AI

Never has AI been so personal in the present, so with the opportunities for it to be personally new and groundbreaking in the future, expectations of personality customization in the future include:

Various 'personalities' for your AI buddy to address various emotional requests

More humanized conversational experience as if you're speaking to another sentient being

It's the 21st-century AI companionship 'candy love' future, and it's only going to get better and more emotionally fulfilling as it learns what complicated little people like us want from it. Adjusting the personality of your AI chat friend means knowing what YOU want.

Do you want someone that's going to be there for you in your time of sorrow? Someone else with whom you'll share personal secrets? Someone who can compliment you on screen for your self-esteem?

But there's no one correct or incorrect response; either the technology exists or it does not. With these AI personas, they are meant to fulfill a variety of emotional needs at various times. Some even confess to changing their persona settings based on their emotional feelings or contexts.

What is clear, however, is that the one AI companion of yesteryear is no more; we have the technology to turn our experiences into "candy love," fulfilling our emotional needs for companionship and then simplifying what partners need to accommodate us—as opposed to us needing to accommodate them.

With AI partners as a growing addition to our online lives, one feature that will forever be needed for effective, enjoyable interaction is a personality customization option. Whether you desire your ideal AI partner to be romantic, sexual, or hysterical—or a balance of all three—your perfect fantasy partner can be obtained.

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