How to start a good self learning in programming

after in school education in computer scince iam not satisfied
becuce i will not get a good programming skill.at that tyme i will confuced becuce i will tink in all good resource are available in online.
but how to start a good and efective self learning and which language are started to learn first .

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[Athif binu]

any body answer me becuce all beginners are think in this qustion
@ben Halpern
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