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Chris Bongers
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Experience story: My first job

Today I want to write down how I experienced my first job, how it was like, what I've learned, and the general learning curve.

The year is 2011. I was still in school and started needed to find a company to start an internship.

First, you'll need to know that I just finished college and got a degree in Communication and Multimedia Design.
However, I wanted to convert this into a master's degree in Multimedia Design.

With my degree, I was able to get into the fast course where I could cut down 1 year of my master's.

That sounded like fun because, to be honest, I was kind of done learning and really wanted to start earning money.

Hence, we get into the story of my first job, how it went down, what I've learned, and what I would have done differently.

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Finding an internship


I was not one to have big ambitions to have an internship at Google or other big tech company. I wanted to actually work, a friend of mine just finished his internship as a designer, and we referred me to {company x}.

I contacted them, and it was a perfect fit since they were based in the city next to where I was living.

They were a very small 2 person team (husband and wife) who created High-end WordPress themes.

To get a good understanding of the dynamics, the wife was a previous graphic designer, and the husband was a jacuzzi sales guy.

It was a weird dynamic because of what it turned out to be: Design was outsourced, Development all-of-it was me, just me, a guy who was still in school learning this stuff.

But you know how it goes. As an eager young developer, you take on anything.

During the internship, I was able to focus on one big theme, which turned out to be quite a good seller. Obviously, I had to do a ton of documentation on this, so I didn't get around to making much more during the short intern period.

During this period, I got offered a job since they were of course very happy with my work. I was over the moon.
I was still working as a shelve stocker at the local grocery store. So this new job would be a super opportunity.

Converted the internship to work

I made it

So, we converted my internship into a job. I was, however, still in school. But whenever I could, I went to work there.

These turned out to be some long days and most of my weekends.

However, I was learning so much here, even though it was WordPress development. It taught me a lot about building scalable elements.

The one thing that was a bit of a pain, I was their only developer, and the designs were getting crazier and crazier. At one stage, I was so stressed out about not being able to convert these crazy designs into themes.

Not just because of the challenge, but because of the time pressure. The guy was a salesperson, so he would know how to put pressure on me.

I was seeing my school work and grades going down. My motivation for anything was nowhere, my friends hadn't seen me in a while.

And the worst was they were making thousands on the themes I developed for them.

Time to refactor

Struggle is real

It was my first job. I thought I had to do whatever they asked me. At one stage, I talked to my parents, and told me that having a job is also about standing up for yourself.

Do what's right, and therefore I decided to ask for an open conversation with the owners. This ended up in a good chat, and they agreed they might have pushed me a bit too much.

Things slowed down, and I was able to create quality work again.

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I was also getting way better at WordPress development. We had so many themes at this stage it was actually cool.

For those around, we were competing against Kriesi, who was the #1 seller for a long time.

I also got some cool benefits and bonuses at this stage. I guess they figured their company wouldn't really survive without me.

Good developers are hard to come by


This might sound weird, but at this stage, I also learned that good developers were actually hard to come by.

With that, I mean people who could actually work on their own. That didn't need full guidance.

The whole time I was working there, we always had at least one intern. And my expectation was always they could do the same or better of what I was doing.

This, however, was never the case. I was basically typing the code for them.

I was also far from being able to manage people, as I was still learning myself.

But in general, I learned I had value, and this would only be proven in the companies I turned out working for later.

How it went south

That went south

As you read in the middle of this article, this job didn't last. There were some struggles.
They got sorted, but it was never really gone.

The owners started talking whole holidays, because I was running the business completely anyway.

They didn't respect the work I did. When I would proudly present a new theme, they would be like yeah, just put it online, let the sales speak, and now start working on a new one.

It was really frustrating not to get some kind of recognition. And besides that, I thought, well, if these guys can run a business paying for 3 people and an office space, where only 1 is doing the work?

What would happen if I just started my own WordPress theme factory?

And that's exactly what I did.
I quit the job.
Needless to say, they weren't happy about that.

And started my own business: Mysterious Themes.

Starting a business

Start a business

These were exciting times. I remember going to the business registry, walking out there as a new business owner, and feeling like I was going to make millions now.

I knew how the themes sold and how much time it would cost me to build them.

1+1 = millions!

Unfortunately, that was not the case.

If you know theme-forest, the site where we sold most of the themes, they have a pretty rough review system, much like the iOS App Store these days.

The company I worked for had a set name already. And apparently, that helped in the reviewers being a bit slack.

Most of my stuff now got rejected for mostly design reasons. And to be honest, I wasn't a designer.

The themes were perfectly from a technical point of view and really state of the art.

I built drag and drop themes, even before that was a thing.

This was a bit of a slumber. My dream went down quickly.
Another thing I didn't think about tax, all of a sudden, I had to do tax and I had no idea what was going on.

This was all way harder than I thought.

I ended up choosing the second-best WordPress sales website called mojo-themes. (This is 2012).

They accepted my theme, and it got a few sales in the first week, but nothing like I was used to.

I was getting a bit bummed out.

Then I realised at the previous company we got many requests to install the themes for people, but we never really got into this.

I thought it would be a quick win since installing them was way easier than actually building them from scratch.

Converting the business

It's not working

This was when I converted my business into a Website for a €500 deal.

It worked really well, considering one theme would only sell for about 30€ and theme forest of whoever would get half of that in commission.

I started talking to friends, family, and people online.
Advertising a website fully done for 500€, for most companies, even small businesses, was not a lot of money.

And it turned out to be quite a lucrative business for a while.

Although, at one stage, I didn't ask for support past delivery because it turned out to be a silly approach.

So some people would come back a million-and-one times to get things changed, to complain their computer crashed. (I know right, how is that my problem?)

That was no fun for me. I loved making websites, but dealing with clients at this stage of my life was not my strong suit.

I ended up putting this to a halt to find a new challenge, where I would build actual high-end PHP websites.

Things I've learned


I think the most important thing I've learned during this period was that you need to get going.

Don't wait for the golden opportunity; make your own.
Try out things, speak up for yourself.

Also, it doesn't really matter what your stack is. Looking back, WordPress is no longer a service I would offer, but if you're getting started, it's a good system for someone.

Building themes and plugins is quite a cool challenge, yet there are enough guides and tutorials to help you.

It's all about being proud of what you make.

Another important thing I would actually have done differently is to focus on learning. I decided to start working whilst still in school, which was cool on paper, but in the real world, I struggled quite a bit getting all the school work done.

I think this goes for a lot of things, not just school. If you are learning, dedicate that time to understand what you are learning fully, it doesn't mean you can't work on things, but don't stop the learning process just because you think you're there already.

One of the biggest learnings I did is that communication is key. This is a wide saying, but it goes a long way.

When you communicate with people, your boss, or your client, they must understand you.
They know what's going on, where you stand, and, more importantly, where they stand.

This is something I started to improve in the jobs to come, and the one thing I find is a key element to being successful.

One more thing, I've seen this many times, people see their internships as just that. I challenge you to see it as a job. It might convert into one. But even if it doesn't, you should experience how it feels like to work.

Don't settle for getting coffee for some grumpy dude.
Demand work and pick up the work.
Also, don't be afraid to ask questions. That's what you are there for.

So what happened at your school?

Stay in school

Luckily I'm quite quick in turning things around, and I picked up my school work without much effort.

I finished my degree in 3 years.

I then even decided to do a full university degree on the topics of Communication, Multimedia design. However, that was just too much, I applied to the Uni but didn't get picked.

It's a raffle study, so I had to wait for another year. I decided to not even go that route and just keep my focus on self-learning and working.

It was for sure an interesting time, where I grew so much as a person and developer.

People have asked me if I ever use my degrees, and to be honest, they are on my resume, but I've literally never been asked to show them.

Not saying you should put faulty information on your resume, but I wonder how important it is.

As a person who hired people, I don't even care about that. I tend to go on a personal base. There must be a match between you and the company, and then, of course, your skills should reflect that.

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Top comments (2)

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Jack leo

Interesting story

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Chris Bongers

Thanks Jack 🤟