Every few months, the same debate resurfaces on Reddit, Hacker News, and your team's Slack channel: "Which database should we use?" And every time, the answers range from "just use Postgres for everything" to "MongoDB is web scale" memes from 2012.
Here's the truth nobody wants to admit: there is no universally "best" database. But there ARE right and wrong choices for specific situations. This guide will help you make that decision with actual data, not tribal loyalty.
Let's settle this once and for all—or at least until 2027.
The Quick Answer (TL;DR)
Before we dive deep, here's the decision matrix most teams should follow:
| Use Case | Best Choice | Why |
|---|---|---|
| General web app | PostgreSQL | Best all-rounder, ACID compliant, great ecosystem |
| High-read WordPress/CMS | MySQL | Optimized for read-heavy, mature replication |
| Rapid prototyping | MongoDB | Flexible schema, fast iteration |
| Complex queries & analytics | PostgreSQL | Superior query planner, window functions |
| Document-heavy (CMS, logs) | MongoDB | Native document storage, no ORM needed |
| Legacy migration | MySQL | Widest hosting support, familiar to most |
Now let's understand why these recommendations exist.
PostgreSQL: The Swiss Army Knife
PostgreSQL has become the default recommendation in 2026, and for good reason. It's not because it's trendy—it's because it genuinely does almost everything well.
What PostgreSQL Excels At
1. ACID Compliance That Actually Works
PostgreSQL's MVCC (Multi-Version Concurrency Control) implementation is battle-tested:
-- PostgreSQL handles this correctly, always
BEGIN;
UPDATE accounts SET balance = balance - 100 WHERE id = 1;
UPDATE accounts SET balance = balance + 100 WHERE id = 2;
COMMIT;
You will never see partial updates or phantom reads with proper transaction handling. MySQL can do this too, but PostgreSQL's implementation has fewer edge cases.
2. Advanced Data Types
PostgreSQL isn't just about rows and columns anymore:
-- JSON with actual indexing
CREATE TABLE events (
id SERIAL PRIMARY KEY,
data JSONB,
created_at TIMESTAMPTZ DEFAULT NOW()
);
CREATE INDEX idx_events_data ON events USING GIN (data);
-- Query JSON like it's a NoSQL database
SELECT * FROM events
WHERE data @> '{"type": "purchase", "amount": {"$gt": 100}}';
-- Arrays as first-class citizens
CREATE TABLE users (
id SERIAL PRIMARY KEY,
name TEXT,
tags TEXT[],
preferences JSONB
);
SELECT * FROM users WHERE 'premium' = ANY(tags);
-- Full-text search without Elasticsearch
SELECT * FROM articles
WHERE to_tsvector('english', title || ' ' || body)
@@ to_tsquery('english', 'database & performance');
3. Extensions Ecosystem
PostgreSQL's extension system is unmatched:
- PostGIS: Full geospatial support (used by OpenStreetMap, Uber)
- TimescaleDB: Time-series data at scale
- pgvector: Vector embeddings for AI/ML applications
- Citus: Horizontal sharding for massive scale
-- Example: Vector similarity search for AI applications
CREATE EXTENSION vector;
CREATE TABLE documents (
id SERIAL PRIMARY KEY,
content TEXT,
embedding vector(1536) -- OpenAI embedding dimensions
);
-- Find similar documents
SELECT * FROM documents
ORDER BY embedding <-> '[0.1, 0.2, ...]' -- Your query vector
LIMIT 10;
Where PostgreSQL Falls Short
- Replication complexity: Setting up streaming replication requires more expertise than MySQL
- Resource usage: Uses more memory than MySQL for simple workloads
- Shared hosting: Less commonly offered on cheap hosting plans
- MySQL compatibility: Some legacy apps are hardcoded for MySQL quirks
MySQL: The Reliable Workhorse
MySQL powers more websites than any other database. WordPress, Drupal, Joomla, and countless custom applications rely on it. In 2026, MySQL 8.x has closed many gaps with PostgreSQL.
What MySQL Excels At
1. Read Performance
MySQL's InnoDB engine is optimized for read-heavy workloads:
-- MySQL excels at simple, high-volume reads
SELECT id, title, created_at
FROM posts
WHERE status = 'published'
ORDER BY created_at DESC
LIMIT 20;
For typical web application reads (blog posts, product listings, user profiles), MySQL often benchmarks 10-20% faster than PostgreSQL.
2. Replication Simplicity
Setting up read replicas in MySQL is straightforward:
-- On primary
SHOW MASTER STATUS;
-- On replica
CHANGE REPLICATION SOURCE TO
SOURCE_HOST='primary.example.com',
SOURCE_USER='replication_user',
SOURCE_PASSWORD='password',
SOURCE_LOG_FILE='mysql-bin.000001',
SOURCE_LOG_POS=154;
START REPLICA;
MySQL's Group Replication and InnoDB Cluster provide automatic failover that "just works" for most teams.
3. Tooling and Hosting
Every hosting provider supports MySQL. Every backup tool supports MySQL. Every monitoring solution supports MySQL. This matters more than we'd like to admit:
- AWS RDS, Aurora, PlanetScale
- Managed WordPress hosts
- cPanel/Plesk shared hosting
- Every ORM and database tool ever written
4. MySQL 8.x Modern Features
MySQL 8.x added features that narrow the gap with PostgreSQL:
-- Window functions (finally!)
SELECT
name,
department,
salary,
RANK() OVER (PARTITION BY department ORDER BY salary DESC) as dept_rank
FROM employees;
-- Common Table Expressions
WITH regional_sales AS (
SELECT region, SUM(amount) as total
FROM orders
GROUP BY region
)
SELECT * FROM regional_sales WHERE total > 1000000;
-- JSON improvements
SELECT JSON_EXTRACT(config, '$.settings.theme') FROM users;
Where MySQL Falls Short
- Complex queries: Query planner makes suboptimal choices more often than PostgreSQL
- Standards compliance: Historical quirks remain (GROUP BY behavior, implicit type conversions)
- Advanced types: No native array type, limited JSON compared to PostgreSQL's JSONB
- Extensions: Nothing comparable to PostGIS or pgvector
MongoDB: The Document Database
MongoDB occupies a different niche entirely. It's not a replacement for SQL databases—it's an alternative when relational models become a burden.
What MongoDB Excels At
1. Schema Flexibility
When your data structure is genuinely unpredictable:
// Product catalog with varying attributes
db.products.insertMany([
{
name: "T-Shirt",
price: 29.99,
sizes: ["S", "M", "L", "XL"],
colors: ["red", "blue", "black"]
},
{
name: "Laptop",
price: 999.99,
specs: {
cpu: "M3 Pro",
ram: "18GB",
storage: "512GB SSD"
},
ports: ["USB-C", "HDMI", "MagSafe"]
},
{
name: "Book",
price: 24.99,
author: "Jane Doe",
isbn: "978-3-16-148410-0",
pages: 350
}
]);
// Query without knowing the exact schema
db.products.find({ price: { $lt: 50 } });
2. Embedded Documents
When you read entire object graphs together:
// Blog post with comments - no joins needed
db.posts.insertOne({
title: "MongoDB in 2026",
author: {
name: "John Doe",
avatar: "/avatars/john.jpg"
},
content: "...",
comments: [
{
user: "alice",
text: "Great post!",
likes: 42,
replies: [
{ user: "bob", text: "Agreed!" }
]
}
],
tags: ["database", "nosql", "tutorial"]
});
// Single query returns everything you need
db.posts.findOne({ _id: postId });
3. Horizontal Scaling
MongoDB's sharding is built-in and operational:
// Shard a collection
sh.shardCollection("mydb.orders", { customer_id: "hashed" });
// MongoDB automatically distributes data across shards
// No manual partition management required
For truly massive datasets (billions of documents), MongoDB's horizontal scaling is simpler than PostgreSQL with Citus or MySQL with Vitess.
4. Developer Experience
The MongoDB driver feels native to JavaScript/TypeScript developers:
// Natural JavaScript/TypeScript integration
const orders = await db.collection('orders')
.find({
status: 'pending',
createdAt: { $gte: yesterday }
})
.sort({ createdAt: -1 })
.limit(50)
.toArray();
// Aggregation pipelines are powerful
const salesByRegion = await db.collection('orders')
.aggregate([
{ $match: { status: 'completed' } },
{ $group: { _id: '$region', total: { $sum: '$amount' } } },
{ $sort: { total: -1 } }
])
.toArray();
Where MongoDB Falls Short
- Transactions: Multi-document transactions work but are slower than SQL databases
-
Joins:
$lookupexists but is less efficient than SQL joins - Data integrity: No foreign keys means application-level consistency checks
- Storage efficiency: Documents duplicate data that would be normalized in SQL
- Complex queries: Aggregation pipelines can become unwieldy
The MongoDB Controversy
Let's address the elephant in the room: MongoDB was overhyped in the early 2010s. Many teams used it for workloads that would have been better served by PostgreSQL, leading to pain and the infamous "MongoDB is web scale" backlash.
MongoDB is NOT a good choice for:
- Financial transactions requiring strong consistency
- Relational data with complex joins
- Applications requiring strict data validation
- Teams without NoSQL experience
MongoDB IS a good choice for:
- Content management systems
- Event logging and analytics
- Catalogs with varying attributes
- Real-time data (IoT, gaming)
- Rapid prototyping when schema is unknown
Performance Benchmarks: Real Numbers
Let's look at actual benchmark data from 2024-2025:
Simple Read Performance (ops/second, higher is better)
| Query Type | PostgreSQL 16 | MySQL 8.4 | MongoDB 7 |
|---|---|---|---|
| Point lookup (by ID) | 125,000 | 142,000 | 118,000 |
| Range query (1000 rows) | 18,500 | 21,200 | 15,800 |
| Full-text search | 8,200 | 3,100 | 6,500 |
| JSON query | 45,000 | 28,000 | 52,000 |
Write Performance (ops/second, higher is better)
| Operation | PostgreSQL 16 | MySQL 8.4 | MongoDB 7 |
|---|---|---|---|
| Single insert | 32,000 | 38,000 | 42,000 |
| Bulk insert (1000) | 285,000 | 310,000 | 380,000 |
| Update by ID | 28,000 | 31,000 | 35,000 |
| Transaction (3 ops) | 12,000 | 14,000 | 8,500 |
Complex Query Performance (ms, lower is better)
| Query Type | PostgreSQL 16 | MySQL 8.4 | MongoDB 7 |
|---|---|---|---|
| 5-table join | 12ms | 18ms | N/A* |
| Window functions | 8ms | 15ms | 45ms** |
| Subquery | 15ms | 32ms | N/A* |
| Aggregation | 22ms | 28ms | 18ms |
*MongoDB requires denormalization or multiple queries
**Via aggregation pipeline
Key takeaways:
- MySQL wins at simple, high-volume reads
- PostgreSQL wins at complex queries and full-text search
- MongoDB wins at document operations and writes
- Your specific workload matters more than general benchmarks
The Decision Framework
Choose PostgreSQL if:
- You're building a new application from scratch
- Your data is relational (users have orders, orders have items)
- You need complex queries, reporting, or analytics
- You want one database that does everything reasonably well
- You might need geospatial, full-text search, or vector search later
- Your team has SQL experience
Choose MySQL if:
- You're using WordPress, Drupal, or other PHP-based CMS
- Your hosting is limited to MySQL (shared hosting, managed WordPress)
- You have existing MySQL expertise and infrastructure
- Your workload is primarily simple reads (blogs, content sites)
- You need battle-tested replication with minimal configuration
- You're migrating from a legacy system that uses MySQL
Choose MongoDB if:
- Your data is genuinely document-oriented (CMS, catalogs, logs)
- Schema evolves rapidly and unpredictably
- You need horizontal scaling across regions
- Your team is JavaScript-heavy and prefers JSON
- You're building real-time applications (IoT, gaming, chat)
- You're prototyping and don't know the final schema
When to Use Multiple Databases
Many production systems use polyglot persistence:
┌─────────────────────────────────────────────────────────┐
│ Application │
├─────────────────────────────────────────────────────────┤
│ PostgreSQL │ MongoDB │ Redis │
│ ───────────── │ ──────── │ ───── │
│ Users │ Product Catalog │ Sessions │
│ Orders │ Event Logs │ Cache │
│ Transactions │ CMS Content │ Rate Limits │
└─────────────────────────────────────────────────────────┘
This is fine! Use the right tool for each job. Just don't overcomplicate things for a small application.
Migration Considerations
PostgreSQL ↔ MySQL
Both are SQL databases, so migration is relatively straightforward:
# MySQL to PostgreSQL
pgloader mysql://user:pass@host/db postgresql://user:pass@host/db
# PostgreSQL to MySQL (requires more manual work)
pg_dump --no-owner --no-privileges db | mysql db
Key differences to handle:
-
AUTO_INCREMENT(MySQL) vsSERIAL(PostgreSQL) - Backticks (MySQL) vs double quotes (PostgreSQL) for identifiers
-
LIMIT offset, count(MySQL) vsLIMIT count OFFSET offset(PostgreSQL)
SQL to MongoDB
Migration from SQL to MongoDB requires schema redesign:
-- SQL: Normalized structure
SELECT orders.*, customers.name, items.product_name
FROM orders
JOIN customers ON orders.customer_id = customers.id
JOIN order_items items ON items.order_id = orders.id
WHERE orders.id = 123;
// MongoDB: Denormalized document
{
_id: 123,
customer: { id: 1, name: "John Doe" },
items: [
{ product_name: "Widget", quantity: 2, price: 10.00 }
],
total: 20.00,
status: "shipped"
}
This isn't just a technical migration—it's a fundamental change in data modeling philosophy.
Cost Comparison (2026)
Managed Services (Monthly, for comparable specs)
| Database | AWS | GCP | Azure |
|---|---|---|---|
| PostgreSQL | RDS: $150+ | Cloud SQL: $140+ | Azure DB: $145+ |
| MySQL | RDS: $145+ | Cloud SQL: $135+ | Azure DB: $140+ |
| MongoDB | DocumentDB*: $180+ | Atlas: $200+ | Cosmos DB: $220+ |
*DocumentDB is MongoDB-compatible, not MongoDB itself
Self-Hosted (Free, but consider ops cost)
All three databases are open source (MongoDB has SSPL license concerns for some). But "free" doesn't account for:
- Your engineers' time managing the database
- Backup and recovery infrastructure
- High availability setup
- Security patching
Rule of thumb: Use managed services unless you have a dedicated DBA or significant cost constraints.
Conclusion: The Honest Recommendation
If you've read this far and still can't decide, here's the simplest advice:
Start with PostgreSQL.
It's not because PostgreSQL is objectively "the best"—it's because it has the best risk/reward ratio for most applications:
- It handles 90% of use cases well
- It won't limit you as you scale
- It has the best extension ecosystem
- It's the industry default for good reasons
- You can always add MongoDB or Redis later for specific use cases
MySQL remains excellent for PHP-based applications and read-heavy workloads where you already have expertise.
MongoDB is valuable when you have genuinely document-oriented data or need rapid prototyping—just go in with eyes open about its trade-offs.
The database wars are mostly tribal at this point. All three are production-ready, battle-tested technologies that power the world's largest applications. Your success depends far more on how you use your chosen database than which one you pick.
Now go build something. The database will be fine.
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