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Ujjwal Tyagi
Ujjwal Tyagi

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Fragile Strength: How Twisted Masculinity Fuels Rape in India

Rape is a heinous crime, and those who commit it must be held accountable with capital punishment. However, to effectively combat this issue, we must also examine the societal factors that contribute to such behaviour, including the erosion of true masculinity.

Understanding True Masculinity

True masculinity is defined by strength, responsibility, respect, and protection. A genuinely masculine man respects others, stands up for what is right, and uses his strength to uplift and protect. Unfortunately, this ideal has been increasingly distorted, giving rise to toxic masculinity—an interpretation that equates manhood with dominance, aggression, and entitlement.

Rape: A Crime of Choice

It is crucial to emphasize that rape is a crime—a deliberate choice made by an individual to harm and exert power over another. No societal issue can ever justify this horrific act. The responsibility lies squarely with the perpetrator, who must face the consequences of their actions. However, to prevent future crimes, we must also address the underlying factors that contribute to this behavior.

The Erosion of Masculinity

As India has modernized, societal changes have shifted the traditional roles of men. Without strong, positive male role models, young men may feel lost, leading them to adopt harmful behaviors to assert their masculinity. This behavior is not strength; it is insecurity and cowardice, leading to violence against women and perpetuating a cycle of fear and oppression.

Linking Lack of Masculinity to Rape

Rape is often a crime of power and control. Men who lack a sense of true masculinity may feel the need to exert power over others to compensate for their own insecurities. The absence of positive male role models and the harmful effects of porn addiction create a perfect storm for this dangerous behavior to emerge. Recognizing these factors is crucial for preventing future crimes.

The Path Forward: Reclaiming Masculinity

To address the rise in rape cases, we must start by reclaiming true masculinity. This begins with educating young men about what it truly means to be a man—teaching respect, responsibility, and protection. Families, especially fathers, play a critical role in shaping boys into men who embody these values.

Society must also change. We need to promote positive male role models and create environments where men can express emotions and insecurities without resorting to violence. Stricter laws and swift justice are necessary but must be accompanied by efforts to change the cultural narrative around masculinity.

Conclusion

The rise in rape cases in India is a symptom of a deeper crisis of masculinity. By reclaiming the true essence of manhood—through education, family support, and societal change—we can build a future where men protect rather than harm, creating a world where women can live without fear.

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