Our choices are the sustenance of our behavior. It may not be immediately obvious, but choices are not only about what we choose to do, but perhaps even more about what we choose not to do. This is especially true when we have multiple good options to choose from. Take a moment to write a list of three tempting things you are actively choosing not to do today.
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There is a beautiful book on the japanese take on this: Ikigai: The Japanese Secret to a Long and Happy Life
Short version: your Ikigai (็ใ็ฒๆ) is the thing that gives meaning to your life combined with the impulse with which you wake up in the morning. It's always personal, choosen spontaneously and acted upon willingly. It's an expression of your true self. Everyone has one. You may not know what your Ikigai his, but it's accessible if you make the effort to search it. And it's very worthwhile to make this effort.
My Ikigai: always learn new things and new skills.