What Actually Makes a Mentor Worth Your Time
It's not how senior they are. It's:
- Someone who sees you, not your resume
- Asking the one question that breaks the stuckness
- Giving you permission to be uncomfortable
- Actually remembering your journey and checking in
That's it. Everything else is noise.
Real Examples (These Are Real People)
Engineer A: Stuck at $135K thinking she wasn't "ready yet."
Six months with the right mentor? $195K base, leading teams, wakes up excited about work.
Her mentor didn't teach her new code. Just asked the right questions. Helped her stop being invisible.
Engineer B: Senior developer thinking he wasn't ready for promotion.
Mentor asked: "What if 'not yet' is exactly what they're hiring?"
$40K raise. But bigger win—stopped waiting for permission to grow.
Engineer C: FAANG engineer, living the dream, drowning in imposter syndrome.
After mentorship: "I spent 40% of my energy managing fear. Now I got that back."
The Numbers (If You Care About That)
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5x more likely to get promoted with mentorship
- 25% see salary changes (vs 5% without)
- 89% of mentees go on to mentor others
But the real stat? Every single engineer says: "I wish I'd done this sooner."
Not only because they missed money. But they aren’t living up to there full career capability.
Please check out the article to learn more on this subject
Here's My Real Question for You
Have you experienced mentorship that actually mattered? What was the one thing that person did?
Or are you wondering if it's worth your time? (Real answer: it is. But only if it's the right person.)
Drop your story or question in the comments. I'm genuinely curious what your experience has been.
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