We all know the rule: "Don’t talk to strangers."
But here’s the twist: Some of the bravest career decisions I’ve seen recently started with breaking that rule.
What Really Takes Courage
Over the past few weeks, developers from all kinds of backgrounds booked free 1-on-1 growth calls with me, a total stranger. No job offer. No catch. Just 30 minutes to reflect on where they are and where they want to go.
And you know what? That first step, scheduling the call and showing up, was the real moment of growth.
Not the frameworks.
Not the side project.
Not the fancy blog post.
Just choosing courage over comfort.
Why This Matters
Many developers feel stuck, overwhelmed, or unsure of their next move. They think they need more skills, more courses, or more "readiness."
But often, what they actually need is…
💬 a conversation
👂 a listener
🔍 a bit of clarity from someone outside their own head
Growth doesn't have to be loud. Sometimes, it starts quietly: with a message, a call, a stranger who’s been there before.
So Should You Talk to Strangers?
Yes. If that stranger is someone who’s walked the path and wants to help, do it.
Take the call. Ask the question. Start the conversation that scares you a little.
It might be the bravest, smartest move you make all year.
Want to talk to a stranger? You know where to find me!
https://calendly.com/tim-lorent/free-30-minute-growth-call-for-developers
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