A long time ago, I read a passage that went something like this: The lower-class person has neither ability nor control over their temper; the middle-class person has both ability and a temper; the upper-class person has ability but no temper.
If you look at the people around you or those throughout history who have achieved great accomplishments, many of them are known for their good temper. A good temper, someone who rarely gets angry, shows that they don't sweat the small stuff. A person’s happiness isn’t about how much they own, but about how little they fuss over things.
Five years ago, I was a person with a very strange temper. I’d get upset over the smallest things, and as a result, I had very few friends—many classmates kept their distance from me. My bad temper even made me sick. There’s an old saying: Anger harms the spleen; stress harms the liver. When a person has a strange temper or a bad personality, they often end up with all sorts of weird health issues. Steve Jobs was an example of this. Looking back, I realize how foolish I was. Even though I knew my bad temper wasn’t helping me or anyone else, I still clung to it. Being able to recognize this now shows that I’ve grown up.
On the other hand, if you want to achieve something, you must have a good personality. Optimism, positivity, extroversion, enthusiasm, kindness, and sincerity will make you shine, even if your appearance isn't particularly striking. A good personality will help you make lasting friendships, expand your network, and allow you to succeed in your endeavors.
Today, I came across a quote from someone: A pessimist sees the world from the foot of the mountain; an optimist sees it from halfway up; a person with a broad perspective sees it from the top. I think people with good personalities are more likely to reach an optimistic or even a broad perspective in life.
A good personality takes you farther.
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